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Life Isn’t Fair | A Poem

In a flicker of a moment, all we knew had gone away

The dust left there before us in the harsh cold light of day

No reasoning, nor common sense, no way of understanding why

Accept, we must, which cards are dealt, as the hands of time tick by.

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Grandparents | Daily Prompt: Memories

“Photographers, share an image that says MEMORY”


 Today’s Daily Prompt asked us to provide an image that said Memory, so when I automatically thought of my Grandparents I instinctively knew it couldn’t be just one picture. It was only natural to me to include both of them, because that’s how my memory remembers them. Together.


I really miss my Grandparents. Growing up as a young boy they were always there in my life, important role models that taught me so much. I obviously didn’t notice at the time, but thinking back I realise how much of an influence they had on me.

My elder Sister and I would often go over and stay with them for the weekend, and we would always look forward to it. My Grandmother’s home cooking: Chicken Noodle Soup, Cakes, Meatloaf….tastes and smells I can recall to this day many years on. My Grandfather’s stories of his childhood, relishing in telling us how he always got into trouble and the naughty pranks and situations he would find himself in. His harmonica playing. His incredible good luck at always finding money on his walks out and about.

They would always take us for walks to the parks in Manchester, espcecially in the Autumn searching for perfect ‘conkers’ (horse chestnuts) and the Museums too. Teaching us things, showing us things, letting us explore and discover. It really was a ritual of passing on their knowledge to us, feeding us with new information. My Grandmother, born in Germany would teach us words and to count in German. My Grandfather, a proud Englishman who fought in WWII, would instill manners and good behaviour into us.

It’s a crying shame that I only realised how much I benefited from my Grandparents before it was too late, and sadly they had both passed on. I often wish that I had had more time with them, so that I could show them that everything they had taught me had made a difference.

I Thank You, I Miss You, & I Love You Both Dearly


Mrs I.E. Aspden & Mr T.H. Aspden

In response to: http://dailypost.wordpress.com/2013/05/16/daily-prompt-sale

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